A chastity cage is a device that is used by males to be worn around shaft and the head of the penis to prevent them giving themselves or receiving from others sexual pleasure. The device is usually held by a waist harness or a testicle ring. The device makes any form of erection very uncomfortable or even impossible.
Most people use a chastity device for BDSM play, but the cages can be used for long term or short term arrangement with your partner. There are different reasons why people use chastity cages or get locked up by their partners. Here we discuss a few of those reasons.
Reasons why one can get “locked up.”
One of the things that appeal to people is the sexual tease and denial aspect. The tension you feel will increase when you get aroused and you know that you cannot do anything to deal with it. Actually, you might have the desire but it will be very hard to get an erection and when you get one, it becomes very uncomfortable. You’re forced to wait for the right moment or when your keyholder, the person you choose to hold the key to the lock on the device, allows you to unlock the cage and release you instead of how it happens normally. When you get naturally aroused you tend to want to get it ejaculate right then and there without hesitation, but when you’re locked inside the cage you will not rush to orgasm as most people do. Instead you will savor the moment and appreciate the release you’ve earned.
Here’s an example of a game you could play with your keyholder. You wake up in the morning and get ready for work like normal. Before you leave home your partner calls you into your bedroom, instructs you to drop your trousers and locks a cage onto your cock. Throughout the day they send you pictures of the key hanging on a necklace around their neck or sat on their office desk next to a picture of you. They might tell you about all the filthy things they want you to do to them when they get home. The teasing increases throughout the day, but you know there’s nothing you can do to release the tension. You’re pent up and when you do finally get home you’re ready to satisfy them in order to earn your own release. Chastity really can be fun!
This leads us onto fully appreciating your orgasms. Once you start using a chastity cage, there will be no opportunity to masturbate or have sex with anyone who isn’t your partner. Once it is taken off and you engage in a sexual activity, you are definitely going to enjoy maximum pleasure and the orgasm will be more intense, especially when you wear the cage for extended periods of time.
Wearing a chastity cage can generally increase a person’s sex drive. Think about it. When you are restricted from doing something there is always that feeling of wanting to do it more. Well, when you are locked up you will increase your sex drive because you will be looking forward to getting released and when you are, you will be more motivated and enthusiastic than you were before.
In some BDSM relationships you have a dominant person and a submissive partner. Wearing a chastity cage allows the dominant to clearly demonstrate their control over the submissive by removing the opportunity for them to pleasure themselves. This power dynamic can be very enticing and clearly establishes who is in charge.